Did you replace the mechatronic sleeve and also the little bridge seals?
While refurbing the valvebody did you also check those little dampers that are seated in it? They need to be replaced with updated parts.
Firstly make sure your problem is in the engine or transmission, this is a valvetronic engine meaning it idles with no vacuum in the intake manifold and has 100% open throttle almost all the time. The engine crankcase has modulated vacuum from the vacuum pump via the ccv diaphragm setup built into the valve cover, if you have too high vacuum in the crankcase then the valvecover is probably bad and needs to be changed.
Check the engine tune with a scan tool, to see the vanos and valvetronic positions and compare them with good data sets. If they are off then check whats wrong, it maybe a wrongly set timing (check lamp etc) or bad vanos solenoids (common)
If the issue is in the transmission then its the park release solenoid maybe leaky or bad, thats why I asked did you do a proper refurb or a jugaarbaazi refurb.
I wont suggest mercedes atf for it, find zf lifeguard 6 or ford mercon sp fluid.